I'm single.

[goodolmike]

Hey everyone,

Last night Mark and I broke up. We've been together for over 15 years, but I definitely felt that I'm ready for something else. I think he needs a kick in the pants, too.

Luckily we were able to discuss it like adults, and we both made it clear that we very much want to stay friends. It's going to be a big adjustment, but I will say that I'm very excited about what the future holds.

I want to sincerely thank the handful of friends that have listened to me think out loud about this over the past week. Your support means the world to me.



So yeah, SINGLE.

Comments

[50poundnote.livejournal.com]

I'm so excited to see what the future holds for you.

The next couple of weeks are still probably going to have some giant ups and downs for you and Mark, but we're here for you.

[bearzilla.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry to hear about you and Mark seperating...but glad to hear you are staying friends and will still be in each others lives.

The future is definitely bright for you Mike...I look forward to reading and seeing you enjoying it in your posts. You're a good man.

HUGS

[low-fat-muffin.livejournal.com]

oh hon! breaking up with someone - even if it's absolutely the right thing for both people? is difficult. (i know I'm stating the obvious here but bare with me) as this evolves and changes begin - remember to be gentle on yourself and on Mark. and I'm glad you are surrounded by supportive great people RIGHT THERE who can remind you how AWESOME you are - and how it's all OKAY. :) Don't fret too much about whats next - yield to the NOW and make it the best you can :)

[tonethbone.livejournal.com]

Fifteen years is a long time..so I hope that both of you adjust as smoothly as possible to the new reality.

Breakups are a nasty reality of life ...but it is always good to hear that the former couple will still be friends

Surround yourself with supportive friends ...and go boldly into the future.
Good luck

[brunorepublic.livejournal.com]

Sorry to hear this. I hope everything works out for the best.

[titoagogo.livejournal.com]

Peace to you

[goreyboy.livejournal.com]

I don't have anything useful to say but I'd give you a hug if I was there.

[sluggobear.livejournal.com]

Sending good vibes your way.

[crimsonsaint.livejournal.com]

Sounds like a big change, but it appears to be one you both need. Glad you were able to discuss it amicably and that you'll remain friends :-)

[fogbear.livejournal.com]

Oh hai!

[putzmeisterbear.livejournal.com]

Wow. Big change in things. I hope it is a smooth transition for you both. Staying friends can be helpful, after 15 year you share so much. I knew my ex and I would be able to remain friends when he asked me for dating advice. Big tight hugs.

[fogbear.livejournal.com]

*hugs* to be delivered in person in a week!

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[bearpawly.livejournal.com]

It's amazing to know you guys have been able to navigate the emotional terrain of such a difficult decision and handle things so well.

Best of luck to you both and you enter new chapters.

[[snuggs]]

[huxbear.livejournal.com]

Major transitions in one's life -- especially of the deeply emotional variety -- come with "grieving" no matter how logical or grownup we try and be, man... [[snuggs]] Be gentle with yourself and Mark...it's gonna be tender for awhile. [[more snuggs]]

I hope we get to see ya at IBR!!! [[yes, even MORE snuggs]] ;o)

[andybr.livejournal.com]

15 years is a long time together. Glad you are still friends. I spose your dance card is gonna get filled up right quick now!

I speaks well of you both

[caestus.livejournal.com]

That you were able to make this break and to do it amicably, especially after that time. I am sorry for your loss, but wish you best.

[delawarecub.livejournal.com]

Damn, I'm sorry to hear about your break up. Hugs man.

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[joncub.livejournal.com]

hey take care of yourself, handsome!

*hugs*

[shirtlifterbear.livejournal.com]

*smooch*

Here's a toast to a happy future!

[jccub1.livejournal.com]

Mike - incredibly sorry to hear about the break up. But you seem positive and in a good place which is important. Sending you heartwarming and happy *hugs* from Down Under for the future.